In 1corinthians 7:9 the Bible says but if a man can not contain, let him marry: for it is better to marry than to burn. From this scripture you understand that is quite better to marry than to remain unmarried and burn sexually in your passion. It is good for you to plan your life in time and also instill discipline in your life, to ensure you don't have bad sexual memory in the future. Well in time coming I evangelist K. E Amaka will write a book on this tittle "... It is better to marry than to burn ". I also need you to know that there is need to have a relationship with God who will help you to be wise in life and help you discipline yourself. How do you have relationship with Him 1. By surrendering to Him, you need to be born again 2. You grow in Him through His Word.