In 1corinthians 7:9 the Bible says but if a man can not contain, let him marry: for it is better to marry than to burn. From this scripture you understand that is quite better to marry than to remain unmarried and burn sexually in your passion. It is good for you to plan your life in time and also instill discipline in your life, to ensure you don't have bad sexual memory in the future. Well in time coming I evangelist K. E Amaka will write a book on this tittle "... It is better to marry than to burn ". I also need you to know that there is need to have a relationship with God who will help you to be wise in life and help you discipline yourself. How do you have relationship with Him 1. By surrendering to Him, you need to be born again 2. You grow in Him through His Word.
I will give you, 5 rules for a successful courtship. Avoid sex; If you want a successful courtship, avoid sex before marriage. You should avoid everything that will lure you to commit furnication. Avoid romantic touches; save the romance for your marriage. When you are marry, you can then romance as much positively as possible. I don't say you should not be attracted or admire the one you love and want to marry, no, but, it should be done with discipline and respect. Don't hide any of your secret from your courting partner; open up your pass to your courting partner, this is the time. Open up especially those ones that can cause problem to your marriage. If you had a baby in the past, let him or her know. Avoid acting as a wife or husband in courtship or before married; as a wife to be, don't go to your husband's to be house to cook for him. Don't even carry food to him or go to wash his clothes for him. For God sake, is not yet your husband. Stop acting lik...
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