The Prepared Singles

You need as a single preparing for marriage, to identify those areas, that are capable of destroying or breaking your marriage. Changing yourself in areas capable of bringing your marriage to a halt, is very important. Areas like unforgiveness, anger, unkeptness or dirtiness etc. Changing these afore listed and those unlisted is very crucial to building a home. Is best you deal with that thing, or those things before marriage. Because when you are single, you are the only one dealing with that issue or issues, that is for those dealing with it. But if you marry, you bring in someone to suffer with you. If you are a confused person, you bring in someone to suffer the confusion with you. Please, don't misunderstand me, no one is Mr or Mrs right, we are all imperfect which we should be working on, as we are growing in our marriage. We have nothing like perfect marriage, but the best marriage is a growing marriage. But there are things we must work on, that is capable of separating cou...

These are questions some people do ask. Some ask this question of who to marry because they want to settle for the best. Some don't want to make a mistake. Some just pick anyone they think is okay and marry. For me, I advice you marry your best friend. Know the person you want to marry. Know the Person's temperament, know the person's likes and dislikes. Have vision of person you want to marry, set goal of the person you want to marry. Then, how to marry, develop a good communication skills to communicate with who you want to marry. And even if you are married, how to talk to your spouse communicably. You need to be neat in your dressing, dress neat and learn how to combine colours to match. I have talked about communication and dressing. Another one is abstain from sex until married. Finally I have for you in this write up is, be a positive person.

Marriage is tripartite in nature. The tripartite chain of marriage is between God, man and the woman. The bible says that Jesus is the head of the man and the man the head of the woman in marriage. And remember that marriage is a covanant between God and the union of the two parties. For this chain to be positively functional in a marriage, the two parties must agree together and work together their marriage and maintain peace. That is when Christ takes absolute charge of family as the overall head of the family.

If you want to marry, look for a similar vision to marry. Go for vision, when you want to marry. Because vision will determine the future. Have a vision for life, and choose someone with similar vision to spend the rest of your life.