Changing yourself, before you go into...

You need as a single preparing for marriage, to identify those areas, that are capable of destroying or breaking your marriage. Changing yourself in areas capable of bringing your marriage to a halt, is very important. Areas like unforgiveness, anger, unkeptness or dirtiness etc. Changing these afore listed and those unlisted is very crucial to building a home. Is best you deal with that thing, or those things before marriage. Because when you are single, you are the only one dealing with that issue or issues, that is for those dealing with it. But if you marry, you bring in someone to suffer with you. If you are a confused person, you bring in someone to suffer the confusion with you. Please, don't misunderstand me, no one is Mr or Mrs right, we are all imperfect which we should be working on, as we are growing in our marriage. We have nothing like perfect marriage, but the best marriage is a growing marriage. But there are things we must work on, that is capable of separating couples. Examples is unforgiveness, anger, looking for faults, selfishness, secrecy and third party interference, name your own if there is. These things are capable of bringing your marriage to a halt. So therefore beware of these things. But, know that there is someone who can help you in your marriage. Maybe your marriage is already battling with these things or one or more of them. He can help you amend your marriage, just start with accepting Him(Jesus) as your personal Lord and Savour. Confess Him as your Lord and Savour with your mouth today.

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5 rules for a successful courtship

I will give you, 5 rules for a successful courtship. Avoid sex; If you want a successful courtship, avoid sex before marriage. You should avoid everything that will lure you to commit furnication. Avoid romantic touches; save the romance for your marriage. When you are marry, you can then romance as much positively as possible. I don't say you should not be attracted or admire the one you love and want to marry, no, but, it should be done with discipline and respect. Don't hide any of your secret from your courting partner; open up your pass to your courting partner, this is the time. Open up especially those ones that can cause problem to your marriage. If you had a baby in the past, let him or her know. Avoid acting as a wife or husband in courtship or before married; as a wife to be, don't go to your husband's to be house to cook for him. Don't even carry food to him or go to wash his clothes for him. For God sake, is not yet your husband. Stop acting lik...

Understanding the wiring of a man and woman

Is of ultimate importance to understand the wiring of both genders. Men have their wiring design behavior, so those the women. Lets look at some of these differential genders wiring. Females can verbally express their emotions than males. Women also exhibit a stronger emotional response to the anticipation of pain. Males are more likely to die from an accident than females. Because men are more likely to take risks and overestimate their ability. Males are more likely to exhibit aggression physically while females are more likely to exhibit aggression verbally. Men have a stronger reaction to sexual infidelity, while women have a stronger reaction to emotional infidelity. Women use both side of the brain to respond to emotional experiences while men use just one. Women read subtle emotion better than men. Men thrive in conflict, women avoid it Males are aroused under stress while females are turned off. Men and women use different parts of the brain during sexual arousa...

... it is better to marry than to burn

In 1corinthians 7:9 the Bible says but if a man can not contain, let him marry: for it is better to marry than to burn. From this scripture you understand that is quite better to marry than to remain unmarried and burn sexually in your passion. It is good for you to plan your life in time and also instill discipline in your life, to ensure you don't have bad sexual memory in the future. Well in time coming I evangelist K. E Amaka will write a book on this tittle "... It is better to marry than to burn ". I also need you to know that there is need to have a relationship with God who will help you to be wise in life and help you discipline yourself. How do you have relationship with Him 1. By surrendering to Him, you need to be born again 2. You grow in Him through His Word.

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