Five wrong reasons why men and women marry.

One wrong reason why men and women marry is what I call, age desperacy. People get hooked up by desperation and decide to Settle for anything.
Another reason is baby factory. Some marry with the reason of just having babies, or some love babies and want to have a lot of them. So, they end up marrying just because of babies. What happens to such marriage, if babies don't come for years? I live the answer to you reader.
Next reason is baby outside wedlock. Some marry because of having a baby outside wedlock. And that is a wrong reason.
Next is first person I have ever had sex with. Who broke my virginity. Please that's a wrong reason of getting married. If you had made the mistake of breaking your virginity by permission, then, you don't need another mistake of marrying the person just because you were deceived and disvirgined.
Finally I have for you is the wrong reason of just marrying someone because of physical attractness. And sometimes the attractness is based upon infatuation. In conclusion lets examine these five wrong reasons and prepare better for marriage.

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