Singles and married, see beyond

Singles and married, see beyond. As a single, you need to see beyond the now, present and today. Many young people today want it now. They want it already made, quick, sharp, fast and today. So, they end up, seeing just the now. One of the problem with this young people is their mindset. Another ones is their understand and orientation towards life. As a single intending to marry, you need to understand that is not all about the present. Maybe, a man approach you, and seriously having the intention to marry you. But the appearance of the man may not be that good, or, his speaking capacity may not be enticing. So, you end up, summing up the man by his present state. Singles and married, you need to develop a strong character of respect for people, irrespective of the way the look, talk, dress, and what have you. Having a strong character of respect for people, here, am talking about, does not mean allowing people take advantage of you negatively. Or, does not mean allowing people influence, hut, and effect you negatively. Singles intending to marry, go for someone who can help you achieve your dream, vision, aspiration, and destiny all good ones in life. Singles, don't make choice of marriage partner, that will hut your destiny in life. Married, don't base your decisions in marriage by now or today. Singles and married, make your choice base on the tomorrow; because, that is where the solidity lies. In conclusion, see beyond now, today and immediate to the future ahead. Use your present as a fuel for preparing the future as, there is no future without the past. And certainly, your present will soon become your past. In addition, Jesus laid down his life, for you to have eternal life. And Jesus's word, the word of God can help you see beyond the now to the future. Make him the Lord of your life by surrendering to him. How can I do that? Is simple. Just repent of all your sins, and confess Him with your mouth as your Personal Lord and Saviour, then, you are saved. Let me know, if you did that by replying. Thank you all.

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