Changing yourself, before you go into...

You need as a single preparing for marriage, to identify those areas, that are capable of destroying or breaking your marriage. Changing yourself in areas capable of bringing your marriage to a halt, is very important. Areas like unforgiveness, anger, unkeptness or dirtiness etc. Changing these afore listed and those unlisted is very crucial to building a home. Is best you deal with that thing, or those things before marriage. Because when you are single, you are the only one dealing with that issue or issues, that is for those dealing with it. But if you marry, you bring in someone to suffer with you. If you are a confused person, you bring in someone to suffer the confusion with you. Please, don't misunderstand me, no one is Mr or Mrs right, we are all imperfect which we should be working on, as we are growing in our marriage. We have nothing like perfect marriage, but the best marriage is a growing marriage. But there are things we must work on, that is capable of separating couples. Examples is unforgiveness, anger, looking for faults, selfishness, secrecy and third party interference, name your own if there is. These things are capable of bringing your marriage to a halt. So therefore beware of these things. But, know that there is someone who can help you in your marriage. Maybe your marriage is already battling with these things or one or more of them. He can help you amend your marriage, just start with accepting Him(Jesus) as your personal Lord and Savour. Confess Him as your Lord and Savour with your mouth today.

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Be in control of your emotion

Don't allow emotion to be in charge of you in a serious relationship that can Iead to marriage. Emotion can make you not to face reality in your relationship. Imagine a relationship that can produce a sickler as a product and the doctor is telling you people that, this will be a problem, you people said we love each other let's go ahead with our life and marry. Not hearing the doctor, the church and ignoring the test result. You went ahead married and brought a child into this world to suffer, why? Is it what true love means? If you were born a sickler into this world how will you feel? Let's not allow our emotion to ride us in a good relationship. I thought if you allow your emotion to be in charge it becomes infatuation. Please let's allow knowledge to rule us in everything we do.

The place of your virginity, and virtue.

Let me start by defining dictionary wise, what virginity and virtue are. Virginity is the state of being a virgin. While virgin is a person who has never had sex. Virtue ( formal) dictionary meaning is behavior or attitudes that show high moral standards. From the above, you now know what virginity and virtue are. Now, the place of your virginity and virtue should be high. Don't joke with your virginity, take it serious. Don't allow someone who is not your partner, have sex with you. They only one permitted to break your virginity is your husband. Place your virginity in a place of value. Virtue is very important, even as a virgin. Your virginity is worthless without virtue. Another dictionary meaning of virtue is a particular good quality of habit. a woman of virtue is a woman of value and a woman of valuable possession. So, as a man, as a woman, develop a mindset of virtue. As a man you can be a virgin too. As a woman, don't put your trust on your virginity for marriage.

Breaking out when single

The best time to break out of addiction or addictions that can determine your marriage, is or are when you are still single. Am talking about addiction you formed before marriage. Habittual addictions like mastubation; driving sexual satisfaction by yourself, watching pornography and during process can mastubate, lust, deep lust, furnication; whether in the heart or in the physical, immoral pattern of thinking, whether sexual or wickedly etc, can destroy our lives and destinies. It can also destroy marriages. And that is why is best you need to seriously start working hard on yourself. You need to be determined to break out. God will help you, if you ask Him, but, you need to show God that you are ready to break out of that habit or habits. The person having that uncontrollable deep habitual addition of lust when single, whether acting openly or secretly, or boldly or timidly will still do it if married. And lust is a sin, but a sin can become habitual, and can also become ones charact

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